Story sent in by a Xstomedian. Read below and share your opinion...
The woman (a family friend) introduced a junior colleague (they both
work in the same firm) to one of her clients who was looking to settle
down quickly in marriage. He didn't want a long engagement. They both
took to each other immediately and true to his words they got engaged
after a three month courtship. They followed it up with an
introduction; a small event between both families. Two weeks ago they
went to take some medical tests. They already knew each other's Genotype
and are compatible but an official confirmation was needed. On their
way home, he began to preach about the importance of honesty in a
relationship.
He went on to reveal that two of his ex-girlfriends had
abortions for him. He then asked her if she has ever had an abortion. He
assured her that he wouldn't mind if the answer is YES after all his
exes are married with children. She admitted to having terminated a
pregnancy at 19 but it was a safe abortion.
To her surprise, he took the revelation well. Everything was the
same until last week when his attitude suddenly changed. He stopped
calling her, picking her calls, ignored her BBM messages. Even his older
brother and two sisters whom she had become close to also began to avoid
her. To cut the long story short, he called off the engagement because
he doesn't want to marry a girl that has had an abortion.
My family friend(the matchmaker) is furious but mainly because of what
she termed the girl's 'naivety' and 'stupidity'. Who admits to such
things? she asked. Was the girl really naïve and stupid? Was she just
being honest about her medical history?
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